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Promises of God for Christians (Free Printable)

When we struggle with doubt and discouragement as homeschool moms, we need to get into God’s Word! Focusing on the promises God gives to us as believers is a great way to “set our minds on things above and not on things of the earth.” 

I was truly blessed by doing this Bible study. As I looked up all these Bible verses, I was reminded of God’s heart of unfailing love and faithfulness to us, the good news of the gospel, and the sure hope of eternal life we have as believers in Christ Jesus. 

This free printable list of the promises of God (13 pages) is wonderful to put in your Morning Time notebook or display in prominent places where you are most likely to see them throughout the day. You can cut out the smaller cards to put in a frame or tape them in places you will see them frequently like the kitchen sink, bathroom mirror, or your nightstand.

Each of these Bible promises is followed by a Scripture reference (ESV) so you can look these up on your own to get a better understanding of the context of each promise. 

Promises of God for Christians (Free Printable)

God’s Promises about Salvation

God’s love for us is incomparable because while we were his enemies, Christ died for us and offers us salvation and eternal life. 

Salvation is promised to those who call on the Lord. “For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Romans 10:13

Salvation is a free gift of God.  “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 6:23

Believers have eternal life in Jesus. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.” John 3:16

God’s Promises to Believers

There is no condemnation for those who trust Christ. “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:1 

We are a part of the family of God. “So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone.” Ephesians 2:19

Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ. “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written,’For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.’ No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:35-39

Because of Jesus, we can know our heavenly Father. “And this is eternal life, that they know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” John 17:3

By abiding in him, our lives will be spiritually fruitful. “I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5 

Believers who remain steadfast in suffering will receive a crown of life. “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.”  James 1:12

God will answer our prayers. “Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.” John 14:13,14

Jesus will never abandon you. “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5b

Promises of God about the Holy Spirit

God has given us the Holy Spirit to guide, comfort, and help Christians. 

When Jesus ascended, he gave believers his Holy Spirit as a gift. “If you love me, you will keep my commandments. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.” John 14:15-17

The Holy Spirit produces fruit in our lives. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23

The Holy Spirit will guide believers into all truth. “When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.” John 16:13

God’s Spririt gives (spiritual) life to our dead bodies. “If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.” Romans 8:11

Promises of God for Daily Life

The Word of God has wisdom and encouragement for every circumstance in daily life. 

He cares about us. “Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” I Peter 5:7

Jesus gives us peace that the world cannot give. “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. … Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.” John 14:27

God comforts us in our troubles. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” 2 Corinthians 1:3,4

God will supply all your needs. “And my God will supply every need of yours according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19

You can do anything God calls you to in life because Christ gives you the strength to do it. “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13

God’s Promise to Give Us Victory Over Sin

What truth can we cling to in our struggle with sin? These verses offer us incredible hope! 

God will provide a way of escape in temptation. “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” I Corinthians 10: 13

He is able to keep you from stumbling. “Now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you blameless before the presence of his glory with great joy…” Jude 24

When we confess our sin after salvation, God forgives us. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” I John 1:9

Sin cannot control you. “For sin will have no dominion over you, since you are not under law but under grace.” Romans 6:14

The devil will flee from you when you submit to God. “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James 4:7

You are a new creation in Christ. “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” 2 Corinthinans 5:17

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Promises from the Old Testament

One particular thing we should be careful about as Christians is that we don’t claim promises of God that were meant for different people at different times. 

These are some good questions to ask when reading a text. Who God is speaking to in this promise? Is this a promise made to a specific person or to the nation of Israel?

Although the New Testament is full of promises specifically to those who place trust in Christ, . we can also learn a lot about the heart of God from his interactions with Israel in the Old Testament.

These verses below are promises I believe we can infer from understanding God’s nature throughout the Old Testament. 

God gives strength to those who wait on Him. “Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted;  but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles;they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”  Isaiah 40:30-31

God can give perfect peace to the one who trusts him. “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” Isaiah 26:3

God will give you direction in life as you trust in Him. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not leanon your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”  Proverbs 3:5,6

The Lord promises blessings to those who trust in him. “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, forit does not cease to bear fruit.” Jeremiah 17:7,8

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Promises of God from the Psalms

In the book of Psalms, we find a plethora of songs praising God for his character. We can relate to David as he pours out his heart to the Lord during some of the most difficult times in his life. 

God is a refuge for us in times of trouble. “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” Psalms 46:10

The love of God is so great, it cannot be measured. “For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him.” Psalms 103:11

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted. “The Lord is near to the broken-hearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.” Psalm 34:19

God will give you the desires of your heart as you delight yourself in him. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalms 37:4

The Lord takes pleasure in his people. “For the Lord takes pleasure in his people; he adorns the humble with salvation.” Psalm 149:4

In Him we can have complete joy and lasting pleasure. “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy, at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Psalms 16:11

God’s Future Promises

This list of promises includes the most important promise to believers: Jesus is coming again soon! Though life on earth may be filled with trials and suffering, it is short. Eternity is long and soon we will “ever be with the Lord.” 

Jesus is coming to judge evil. “Behold, the Lord comes with ten thousands of his holy ones, to execute judgment on all and to convict all the ungodly of all their deeds of ungodliness that they have committed in such an ungodly way, and of all the harsh things that ungodly sinners have spoken against him.” Jude 14b-15

Believers will inherit the kingdom that God has been preparing for them since the beginning of the world. “Then the King will say to those on his right, “Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.” Matthew 25:34

Soon we will be with the Lord for all eternity. “Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord.” I Thessalonians 4:17

Jesus is coming back soon! “Behold, I am coming soon, bringing my recompense with me, to repay each one for what he has done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the first and the last, the beginning and the end.” Revelation 22:12

Revelation 12:20 “Surely I am coming soon!”

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The promises in this list do not even scratch the surface of the riches of God’s kindness to us as his children. I challenge you to write out the promises of God for yourself. As you spend time reading the Bible each day, jot down the promises you read. You will be blessed as you reflect on God’s abundant goodness.

When you encounter difficult times in your life today, open the holy Bible and remind yourself of the good things God promises to us as believers. 

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How to Homeschool When Kids Have Bad Attitudes and Siblings Fight

How do you homeschool when kids have bad attitudes and siblings fight amongst themselves? How should you handle the real struggles and challenges as a homeschooling parent? This is a good question to ask because, whether we want to acknowledge it or not, it is a very real, daily part of homeschooling!

I recently had someone ask me this question on YouTube.


“Can you do a video or comment on how you deal with the sibling fights and when they don’t want to sit down. Do you have any children who are less enthusiastic or maybe rebellious in some cases?”

Quite honestly, it would be easy to skirt around this question because there’s not an easy, clear-cut answer for some personal struggles, but truthfully, it’s a question we need to address because it is a regular part of what we do as homeschool moms.

When we moms think of homeschooling, I think some of us have this idyllic picture of doing it in a world where there are no problems. No selfishness. No hard days. No personality clashes. Everyone just enjoys being together. If only that were the case, right?

While I still have a lot to learn on this topic, I want to share the helpful tips I have learned in my 14 years of experience as a homeschooling mom to ten kids. For those of you who also have some homeschooling experience, I invite you to join the conversation below and comment with your solutions for homeschooling when kids fight and have bad attitudes.

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Looks Different in Different Seasons

Behavior struggles look different depending on how old your children are. One of the most common challenges we have had in our homeschooling family is bad attitudes and sibling arguments.

When they are young, kids often quarrel over sharing a toy, who should be first, not wanting to obey. With older kids, sibling conflict often shows itself in clashing personalities. As teens gain independence, they can disrespect parents or house rules.

How to Homeschool When Kids Have Bad Attitudes and Siblings Fight

Address it or not?

How can you tell if the sibling quarrels in your home are something you should address or leave the kids to work out amongst themselves? This is something that I believe you get better at with parenting experience.

A general rule of thumb I use is this. When the matter involves injustice, it should be addressed, if it is more of a clash of personalities (often with older children), it may be a good chance to let them try to work it out.

What about when the conflict is between parent and child? This can show itself in many ways. If a child is noncompliant or doesn’t want to do anything you ask, it is hard to move forward in home school work. Without respect, how can you accomplish anything? This type of behavior should be addressed as the first priority.

Helpful Solutions

One of the most obvious solutions is to have conversations with your kids about being kind and putting others first. If you are a family that reads the Bible and great literature together, the concept of loving your neighbor will be something you come across all the time. This is a great way to talk to your kids about how to love the other people in your home.

In addition to conversations, try these other problem-solving strategies that have worked well for us!

#1 Have clearly defined expectations and boundaries and stick to them!

We can’t hope for peace in our homes if the kids don’t know what to expect. Additionally, if the boundaries are unknown and/or consequences keep changing, we are setting ourselves up for failure. Write out a list (preferably a short list) of realistic expectations and put it in a visible place for all family members to see.

Younger children especially need a daily routine. It’s not necessary to write out specific times, but the most important thing is that you have a rhythm established.

#2 Whisper

Be the first to set an example. When arguments escalate and the temperature rises, respond by lowering your voice. (I’m not referring to an angry, passive-aggressive whisper, but a quieting of the spirit.) Visibly de-escalate the situation by calming yourself down first. When you start whispering to solve the conflict, kids often begin to lower their voices.

How to Homeschool When Kids Have Bad Attitudes and Siblings Fight

#3 Separate them from the situation.

Sometimes when tension runs high, the best choice is to separate a child from the situation. Have the child go to another room for a few minutes to calm down until you can talk to them reasonably about the issue. You have a much better chance of sifting through problems when emotions aren’t quite so high. This doesn’t need to take much time, but a little bit of space quiets contention.

#4 Keep kids near you.

Often when we as homeschool parents are distracted or trying to get something else done, this is the time that our kids start to squabble. If you observe this becoming a problem in your homeschool, try keeping your kids near you. Being WITH them can be the best way to solve problems quickly!

Work at a table or in one room together where you can keep close tabs on conversations and struggles. As they work at their own pace, you can assist with any special needs. Close proximity tends to minimize conflict.

How to Homeschool When Kids Have Bad Attitudes and Siblings Fight

#5 Separate your kids.

If you have older kids who can work independently, separating them can be a good choice to help minimize quarrels and help them focus better on their lessons. Additionally, their younger siblings can sometimes be a distraction depending on what kind of home school work they are trying to complete. Our older kids have a desk in their bedrooms where they can go to have some quiet focused work time.

Separating younger kids may help them take a break from the present issue. When young children get upset, they struggle to calm down. (Struggling to calm down is often one of my own struggles too!)

Often I will have a child work at the desk in our bedroom or another room for some focused work time.

You can also try giving your kids some quiet time alone and then when it’s appropriate, they can come back to join the group for a fresh start.

#6 Strategize with your spouse.

If you are having some difficult days, talk with your husband. He may have some new ideas you can try. This has been helpful to me specifically with having boys. He understands how boys think better than I do. He understands that boys are more physical and have a need to get out their energy.

Your husband may also have some ideas for other personal struggles in your homeschool year like lack of motivation to finish work, different learning styles, or time management skills.

#7 Prioritize your home atmosphere and your kids’ character above school.

If I notice that we have constant conflict in our homeschool, we put our school books aside to work on our relationships. Yes, it is ok to stop your school day to tackle this! Our home atmosphere and kids’ character takes precedence over the homeschool curriculum and everything else. If that means we close the books for a day, so be it!

Spend a little time getting the house in order, cooking together, and being kind to one another. Get the family back into a healthier place. If you keep trudging through schoolwork so you can just get it done, you might be spinning your wheels.

Rather, it is worth taking the time to stop and focus on character issues with your kids. We want our kids to be good friends, so prioritizing home and family will pay off in the long run when everyone gets along better and you can move forward.

Leave a Comment!

Has this been helpful to you? Wherever you are in your homeschooling journey whether this is your first year or your fifth, please join the conversation! Leave a comment below to share the ways you handle the tough times in your homeschool.

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Encouragement for Homeschool Moms of Littles

How do You homeschool with ALL Littles?? Do you look at seasoned homeschooling moms incredulously, wondering how they possibly did it when they were in this stage? You love the idea of offering your kids a rich education through homeschooling, but with so many young ones underfoot, it just seems so hard! In this post, I want to offer encouragement for homeschool moms of littles.

I have a lot of sympathy for homeschool moms who have all young kids. I remember that season very well having been in it for so long. In fact, I’m still in it. We have ten children ages 18 down to 7 months and we are going on our 14th year of homeschooling. Having kids under age six in our home has become the norm for our family for so many years now so that I can’t hardly imagine it any other way. Even so, I have to admit it really is easier now than when they were all little. Those early years of diapers, dishes, dinner, and dirty laundry on repeat…they were hard!

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“I Can’t Get Anything Done!”

Being with very young children all day is really exhausting! Have you heard yourself saying the words, “I can’t get anything done!”? I sure have. For homeschooling moms of all littles, getting very little done is the hard reality.

A day spent with all littles is completely unpredictable. You may write out your daily “to do” list, but it is completely subject to your children’s moods, potty training, lost sleep, tears over math, spilled milk, and a host of other possibilities.

  • whining two year old
  • toddler deciding not to nap
  • baby teething
  • constant interruptions
  • repeated questions from three year olds
  • younger children still building immune systems so they are sick more frequently
  • pregnancy or adjusting to a new baby

Additionally, many moms with young children are homeschooling for the very first time, so there are other difficulties as well.

  • choosing (and learning) a curriculum
  • discovering your homeschool style and your child’s learning style
  • finding a routine that works for you
  • finding homeschool friends/co-ops
  • family or friends questioning your decision to homeschool that can be discouraging
  • adjusting to a homeschool mentality after having been traditionally schooled yourself

These Are The Foundational Years of Your Homeschool

One thing I did not realize when I was in the thick of homeschooling with all young children was that I was in the investment stage of both our homeschool and our family life. Whenever you start any kind of endeavor, whether it is a business, a project, or perhaps building your first home, the beginning is always the hardest part. How many years does it take for a business to start earning a profit? When you dig out the foundation for the construction of a new house, it actually looks like you are going backwards, digging that big hole in the ground. Who could look at that hollow cave of dirt and see the beautiful home you have envisioned?

It is the same with homeschooling. In the beginning, you make the largest investment and see very little fruit. You change messy diapers, make meals, attempt a reading lesson, answer a million questions, read one more story, cry over math, bathe dirty feet, run another load of laundry, kiss them goodnight ….and crawl into bed exhausted. And for what?! To get up and do it one more day.

The idea of homeschooling is so appealing, but the reality of it just seems impossible some days. When you look into your children’s sweet faces, you wouldn’t have it any other way, but are you really getting anywhere?

Seeing Fruit

When you have been homeschooling for several years, you gain perspective. When you see your kids become avid readers or develop unique hobbies, you begin to reap the rewards of all your blood, sweat, and tears. And it is SO worth it! When our second son showed an interest in learning guitar and taught himself to play by watching YouTube videos or when our daughters exhibited artistic talent in some of their baking endeavors, I loved seeing them blossom. Watching your kids become individuals right before your eyes is a beautiful thing. It makes all the investments of the the early years worth it, I promise!

Encouragement: It Does Get Easier!

The good news is that it does get easier! It gets easier because the longer you homeschool the better you get at it. It becomes second nature. You no longer puzzle over the math problem. You’ve learned how to break things down in a way that the kids understand. You are more familiar with your curriculum as well, so that’s one less hurdle.

I have noticed that when the number of independent kids in your home begins to outweigh the number of dependent kids, you really start to see the scales tip the other way. The younger ones are stimulated by just having the older ones around. They no longer look to you for all the entertainment. Additionally, when you have older kids around, the littles look to the older kids to learn the patterns and rhythms of the home.

When your kids are all little, they know nothing at all. You have to teach them everything! I remember teaching our oldest son how to ride a bike without training wheels. We went out every single day for weeks helping him. With all the kids after him, however, as we started to help them, we realized their older sibling has been teaching them. It took half the time and less work for us.

Encouragement for Homeschool Moms of Littles

Practical Solutions

Do a little reading, writing, and math every day. A little here and there goes a long way over time. Let your goal be making progress. Hold your homeschool plans loosely. Some days you will get a lot done, other days not so much. But as long as you do a little every day, you will keep moving forward. Steady plodding brings success!

Get away to recharge. We’ve all experienced that moment when you feel like you can’t wipe one more nose, tackle one more discipline issue, or do one more math problem. You are starting to feel burn out. One of the best solutions I have found when I feel this way is to get away for a little bit. Going out for coffee, shopping with a friend, or just taking a walk will give you a break and help you recharge. When you come home, you will be refreshed.

Pause and tackle tough issues: What is the issue you are struggling with in your homeschool? Messy house? Behavior issues in your kids? Try taking a break from school to find a better strategy to solve the problem. If you have to take a day off of school to get on top of things, the kids won’t get behind. You will be able to make more progress when you have smoothed things out.

You Are Doing Kingdom Work

I want to encourage you that you are doing kingdom work. All the work that you are doing with your little ones has eternal ramifications. The children that God has entrusted to you are eternal souls. You have the responsibility and the awesome privilege to raise them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. When you can have an eternal mindset, it really helps these small earthly struggles and setbacks seem much smaller.

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As you homeschool your kids, do you find from time to time that school can take over your home life? In the years we have been homeschooling, I have become aware of a constant drift as we allow our school work to completely overwhelm us. Homeschooling can be all-consuming. I want to challenge you to look at your homeschool a little differently. Here are some reasons why “home” is the most important part of your homeschool.

Most of us who are homeschooling are doing it for the first time. Because of this, without realizing it, we rely on the methods of the traditional model of school to help us. The problem with this is that many of these practices don’t work as well in a home.

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Making Home Look Like School Is Moving Backward

There’s a reason you pulled your child out of school. Schools are designed to meet the needs of the masses. Your home, on the contrary, is designed individually for your children.

Over the years, I have learned that homeschooling does not look like school. When I first started homeschooling, we organized our day to look very much like school. We said the pledge of allegiance every morning at the kitchen table. I printed off all the state standards to make sure we were “keeping up” with what the kids in school were doing. It didn’t take me long to realize that copying school doesn’t work as well in a home. I learned with experience how to adapt our homeschool to better fit our family’s needs.

Even so, it still surprises me often how many ways we as homeschoolers, without knowing we are doing it, imitate the school model. Here are a few examples.

When we…

  • plan a scope and sequence
  • designate a certain room as our homeschool space
  • determine to finish the curriculum in a given school year, regardless of how well our kids are learning it
  • do school from September through May
  • school all day long
  • are inflexible with learning times like evenings and weekends (This is how some part or full-time working parents can make it work!)

Of course, there is nothing inherently bad about any of these practices, especially if they are a tool that is serving a purpose in your homeschool. It’s just that these practices are methods that were originally designed to educate the masses. They were not intended to meet the individual needs of your child.

There’s No Place Like Home

It makes me a little sad sometimes to walk in our neighborhood during the day and not see even one child. One of the things that I love most about homeschooling is that when we bring our kids home, our home becomes a place that is full of life! We transform the home into the source of activity and growth rather than merely a residence.

Take a second look at all that your home has to offer. It is brimming with creativity, warmth, and life. There is truly no place like home. It is a perfect environment to learn and grow.

Home is the Place Where You Can Be the Most Creative

Compare your home to the sterile nature of a brick and mortar school. Why would you try to make your home like a school? Your home is teeming with living things, raw materials, resources, tastes, smells, laughter, music.

Home is where we can create, experiment, design, imagine, play, and grow. At home, you can you try your hand at a business, learn valuable life skills, master time management, grow living things, care for and serve others, hone your gifts and abilities.

The Comforts of Home

When we are in a safe environment and all our needs are being met, learning comes naturally. This is what makes home the perfect environment for growth. No fear of bullying, no negative peer pressure. We have no standardized tests to take up all our time. No worries about wearing all the right brand names of clothing. We can just be ourselves… which means we are free to learn what, where, and how we wish!

Our Deepest Life-long Relationships Are Forged at Home

Rather than spending all day with their same-age peers, our children can invest in relationships that they will have for the rest of their lives. What a blessing it is for our kids to grow up together! Because they aren’t away at school all day, they also are around to spend more time with grandparents or other family members, closing the generational gap, as children can gain valuable wisdom from the elderly.

Make Your “Home” the Priority in Your Homeschool

I challenge you to look at your homeschool differently. When you make various decisions, ask yourself, “Is this method/practice/choice meeting the needs of my kids and the family or am I doing this because it’s how we did it when I was in school?” Do you need to rethink the way you are doing school at home?

Let school fill in all the extra little empty spaces after you have prioritized your home life. Your bookwork or “school” should enhance your home life, not define it. Let it be the overflow, the icing on the cake.

If you want to enjoy homeschooling, you will find the most fulfillment when you see your home life itself as a grand learning opportunity. To make your home a priority does not take away from an education, it enhances it!

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Raise kids who love to learn with these 10 ideas! Remember, it’s not necessary that we teach our kids everything, but that we teach them to love learning. This concept is key. When kids love to learn, they can learn whatever needs to be learned in any given circumstance. When we help kids love to learn, we set them up for success. Here are ten ideas to help you foster this kind of lifestyle with your kids.

You may also enjoy reading What Happens When Kids Love to Learn?

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#1 Surround Yourself With Living Things

I think one of the best things about homeschooling is that kids spend so much time in the real world, surrounded by living things. Living things move; they change; they need to be cared for and fed. Kids can observe and interact with living things which is what makes them so interetsing! Here are some living things that you can bring into (or outside!) your home.

  • Pets: a dog, cat, hamster, fish, reptile.
  • Fermented foods: sourdough, kombucha or kefir.
  • A vegetable garden: Kids love going outside to look for fruit and collect the harvest.
  • Bacteria: science experiments are fun to observe!
  • Backyard chickens.
  • Miniature outdoor pond.
  • A terrarium.
  • Flower garden, learn to make arrangements.
  • Watch caterpillars change into butterflies.

#2 Don’t Answer Every Problem

When your kids encounter problems, don’t rush in to show them how to fix it. Let them think; let them experiment. Have them look up answers themselves on Google, YouTube, or even in an old encyclopedia.

Give them problems to solve. How can you fix loose knobs on the kitchen drawers? What is the best way to organize a messy closet/drawer/room? How do you change the batteries when the smoke detector goes off? Let siblings solve their own quarrels when appropriate. As parents, we don’t need to solve all their problems. Let them come up with solutions. Their ideas may surprise you!

#3 Let Them Get Bored

When kids have time in their day to be bored, this is when some of the best learning happens. They build forts, they write and perform a play, they ask to bake something, they want to draw. Don’t fill up their schedule so much that they have no time to wonder at the world around them.

#4 Read To Them

If we want kids to be curious, we should introduce them to a feast of ideas. How do we do this? Read to them A LOT! Especially, read things that interest them. One of my favorite poems is by Emily Dickinson when she writes, “There is no frigate like a book to take us lands away.” When we read to our kids we can go anywhere together. It’s a shared experience that makes memories even if we never leave the house.

#5 Play Games Together

When kids play games, they learn so much without realizing it. It’s a fun way to learn that draws them in. Most importantly, kids like games, so they often want to play more rounds.

Board or card games challenge the mind in many ways. Kids can learn and sharpen computation skills by adding up and subtracting points. Being the banker in Monopoly helps with exchanging money amounts. Strategy games are especially good for helping kids to think.

Not all kids love table games. Let’s not forget the ways that playing sports stimulates the mind as well. Moving the body and hand-eye coordination sharpen brain function. Team sports also help kids learn how to work well with others.

#6 Learning By Doing

One of the best ways to learn is by doing. Many kids are wired to learn this way. Teach kids practical life skills: how to change a tire, crochet with yarn, make a cake, fix a bike chain, administer first aid. For more reading on this topic, you may enjoy 50 Life Skills That Should Be Taught At Home. The more skills they have, the more they will branch out and try new things.

Give them daily chores, especially ones that have purpose and contribute to the family. As soon as they are capable, allow them to cook meals for the family occasionally, do their own laundry, mow the lawn.

#7 Be a Learner Yourself

Perhaps the key ingredient to raising kids who love to learn is to be a learner yourself. Are you growing in your skills or knowledge as a person? Do you read, try new things, take risks? Let your kids see you tinkering with your favorite hobby. Even if it’s something that you fail at, your kids will see you trying, failing, and trying again.

#8 Work to Make Your Home Atmosphere Engaging

I love how the home provides the opposite of the sterile confines of a brick and mortar school. Home is a place where you can be the most creative. Look around and find raw materials you can have around your house for your child to use in creating, experimenting, and observing.

Here are some ways our kids have used raw materials in our home for creating.

  • Fabric to make a dress for a doll, hair scrunchies, hot pads, and other trinkets.
  • Wood for making a stool and a decorative shelf. Whittling branches to make designs.
  • Scrapbooking materials to make cards to give to people.
  • Metal pipe to hammer into a sword.
  • Wooden blocks, play animals, and people to build pretend towns with roads and houses.
  • K’nex to make robot and a rollercoaster.
  • Legos…the possibilities are endless.
  • Yarn and thread for embroidery or small knitting/crochet projects.
  • Musical instruments, first for experimentation, later for serious mastery.

#9 Spend time together as a family

It is well known that children who have experienced trauma or who come from broken homes are more likely to have learning difficulties. When kids don’t feel safe at home, when they are afraid or under pressure, their worries keep them from being curious and growing well. The opposite is also true. The times we spend building solid family relationships, laughing, eating meals, exploring, even just sitting around the living room talking…these family-strengthening moments provide the safe environment that helps kids thrive.

#10 Encourage them to take the Initiative

Remind your kids that they alone are responsible for their education. They will reap the rewards in proportion to the effort they put forth. Contrary to popular opinion, learning isn’t something acquired only in a classroom, transferred from student to teacher via the whiteboard. The best learning happens when kids pursue their interests. Motivate your homeschooler to be an independent learner. Challenge them to write out personal goals. I often ask our kids in the morning, “What’s on your agenda today? What do you plan to accomplish?” Put the ball in their court. Have them decide what they want to pursue and accomplish.

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Homeschool mom, you are doing a great work! Don’t let any discouragement, criticism, busyness, your own inadequacies, or anything else distract you from the purpose God has put in your heart to raise your children in the Lord. Whatever is sidetracking you from your mission, don’t look to the left hand or the right. Put on blinders, keep your focus straight ahead of you and move forward. You are doing kingdom work!

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Example of Ezra and Nehemiah

I’ve been encouraged in our purpose as homeschool moms as I have been reading through the books of Ezra and Nehemiah recently in my personal Bible reading. These men lived during a time when their people had been living in captivity in Babylon for several years. Their capital city, Jerusalem, was in ruins having been burned to the ground by the conquest of Nebuchadnezzar. God put it into the heart of these two men to return to Jerusalem, rebuild the city, and strengthen the people who wanted to return to the Lord.

Nehemiah’s mission was to rally men to rebuild the wall around the city so that people could live and build homes once again in Jerusalem. Ezra, a scribe and priest, wanted to restore the people to the Lord by reading and teaching the law of God to all the men, women, and children of the land.

Opposition to the Work

During the rebuilding process, they had much opposition to the work. Certain men mocked the Jews saying, “What are these feeble Jews doing? Will they restore it [Jerusalem] for themselves? Will they sacrifice? Will they finish up in a day? Will they revive the stones out of the heaps of rubbish…and burned ones at that?! Yes, what they are building-if a fox goes up on it, he will break down their stone wall!”

In spite of these taunts, the people of God continued to build. The Bible says, “the people had a mind to work.” After these critics tried again and again to discourage and distract them from the work, they moved to a different tactic by asking Nehemiah to leave the work and come down to meet to talk with them about the matter. I love Nehemiah’s answer to them. He said, “I am doing a great work and I cannot come down. Why should the work stop while I leave it and come down to you?

Nehemiah says of them that “they wanted to frighten us, thinking, ‘Their hands will drop from the work, and it will not be done.'” Then he prays to God asking, “But now, O God, strengthen my hands.”

Homeschool Mom You Are Doing a Great Work

I think this story is a great analogy for us as homeschool moms. Just as God put it into the heart of these two men to restore the land and people to the Lord, God has put it into the hearts of many families to restore our homes by discipling our children. We have a big job to do! Generations are growing up in front of our eyes and there is no time to lose.

You Are Influencing the Next Generation With the Gospel

Like many families, one of the key reasons why we homeschool is to be able to pass down our faith to our kids. I hope you are reading the Bible to your kids as well as helping them develop a habit of reading the Bible for themselves. With our children at our side, we have many opportunities for conversations about the world around us. We can point back to our Creator and His plan in all that we do, “when we walk by the way, when we lie down, and when we rise up.”

You Are Spreading Truth

In a world where truth is hard to find, you have the opportunity to present the truth to your kids unfettered by curriculum guidelines or state standards. Because we homeschool, we can teach them about life from a Biblical worldview. You can show them God’s beautiful design for marriage and sexuality. We can teach true history by being selective using books that rely on primary sources and original documents.

You can read more about this here. 5 Opportunities Unique to a Christian Education

You Are Building Your Home

When you homeschool your children, you are making the home the center of life and activity. When we go for a walk in our neighborhood during the day, it discourages me to see showcase houses that for most of the day are empty. Everything is quiet, like a ghost town.

When we have children in our homes, it brings life back into our communities. It’s beautiful to see and hear children outside during the day. I love watching the generational gap close as children interact with elderly people, learning from their experiences and gleaning their wisdom.

Opposition to Our Work

Just as Nehemiah and Ezra had opposition to their work, we as homeschoolers often face setbacks as well. Whenever you do anything that is counter-cultural, you can expect pushback.

When I think back over our 13 years of homeschooling to the things that have discouraged me, stalled the work, distracted me from the mission that God put on my and my husband’s hearts, I realize that I worried about so many needless things.

  • Will our kids have friends?
  • Am I doing enough?
  • What if they have gaps in their education?
  • Is this a good curriculum?
  • Am I going to mess up my kids by homeschooling them?

Sometimes we faced opposition from our school district. Other times the comments from family, friends, or people in our neighborhood would get to me and I would wrestle with doubt.

With the perspective that I have gained from our many years of homeschooling, I can now see these types of fears for what they really are. They are obstacles, hindrances to distract me from the work that God has given me to do.

Keep Your Focus

What is it in your life that tends to distract you from the work you are doing with your kids? Maybe it’s worry over finances as you struggle to live on one income. Perhaps you have family and friends that question or minimize your decision to homeschool. Often our own insecurity and discouragement can be the biggest challenge.

Whatever is sidetracking you from your mission, I want to encourage you to get your eyes off of the opposition and put your hand to the plow. You have kingdom work to do! We have a generation of kids growing up before our eyes. There is no time to lose! Look straight ahead and move forward. Homeschool mom, you are doing a great work!

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Do you fear that you’re not very good at homeschooling? Have you been led to believe that it takes a certain kind of person to be a good homeschool mom. Maybe you’re intimidated when you see how other homeschoolers are doing school and you think that their style or personality just doesn’t fit you. Or maybe struggled in school, so you don’t feel adequate to teach your own children. How do you move forward in homeschooling when you don’t think you’re good at it?

I want to encourage you that you are the perfect person to be teaching your children. Homeschooling has a lot of variety and it looks different in every family. There’s not “one way” that it is supposed to work. God gave these children to you which makes you the ideal match to understand their needs and to help them excel in every way.

For more on this topic, you may also enjoy reading Can I Homeschool My Child?

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Homeschooling Is An Extension of Parenting

Remember that moment when you first became a parent? I remember it like it was yesterday. When they put that little boy in my arms, my whole world changed. In that instant all other life pursuits faded and I cared about only one thing… doing the best job I could to love and care for my son.

There was only one problem. I had no clue what I was doing! Can you relate? As new parents, none of us really knew what we were doing in the beginning, but guess what? We figured it out!

It’s the same with homeschooling. Homeschooling is an extension of parenting. By the time your kids enter Kindergarten, you have already taught them so many life skills: potty training, how to sleep through the night, how to eat with a fork. The basics of reading, writing, math, and understanding the world around them is just the next logical step in their process of growth.

Qualifications for Homeschooling

Allow me to share with you the two qualifications needed to homeschool your kids.

You have to…

  1. Be a parent.
  2. Care

That’s it! No special skills required! I’m convinced that a loving, curious mom will outperform the “experts” in every way possible, hands down! No one knows your child like you do. No one has a personal, life-long investment in your child like you have. There is no one who will work harder or search more diligently than you will to find the resources your child needs for their struggles AND their gifts.

When along the way as parents did we start believing the idea that we are incapable to teach our kids basic skills?

You Get Better as You Go

You know what the hardest part of homeschooling is for most parents? Going through it with their first child. With our oldest who is now a graduate, I had to learn (and sometimes relearn) everything! Whenever he got to a difficult place in math, I would get nervous because I couldn’t remember how to do some of the problems. Sometimes I had to ask for help from a friend with math skills or look up a YouTube video or really study the textbook, but with a little work, I found answers. Then with all the rest of our kids after that, it became easier and easier for me to teach them.

When you work at something everyday, you become better at it. It’s fresh in your mind and you can more clearly break it down in a way for others to understand. 

Change Your Thinking on the Homeschool Day

Over the years as I have talked to other homeschool moms, I can not tell you how many times I run into moms who are worried that either they aren’t doing enough or that their kids are behind. We need to change our thinking on this.

There is no behind or ahead with children. There is only progress.

The goal is for your child to move forward and make little chunks of progress every day. As moms, we need to remind ourselves of this over and over again.

Learn Along With Your Kids

One of the best things about homeschooling is that you can learn right alongside your kids. For me, homeschooling has been an education in itself. I have learned more from homeschooling my kids than I have from anything else in life, including my college education!

No matter how incapable you think you are to do this job, there is no standard to which you need to attain, you are just learning along with them. Anybody can do that! Maybe you weren’t a good student in school. Or maybe you are studying something with the kids that you never learned in school. Let go of any intimidation or pressure to be an expert on what you are teaching. You are very simply learning with your kids.

Raise Kids Who Love to Learn

When we raise kids who love to learn, we give them an advantage in every life circumstance in every way because they will teach themselves anything that they want to know. When you think you’re not very good at homeschooling, shift the focus from you to them. Help them to love learning about the world around them. “I’m bored” should not be a word in their vocabulary when we are surrounded with such an interesting world in which to live!

Has this ever happened to you? You catch wind of something another child is doing in school who is in the same grade as yours and you begin to panic because you haven’t covered that yet. Immediately you think you must not be doing a good job. This often happens to us as homeschool moms.

Remember there is a. big difference between memorizing information for a test or having a head knowledge about a topic and actually understanding a concept. When you have been forced to learn a subject that you have no interest in, you reach only as far as is necessary to meet the demands put on you. However, when you love to learn, your capacity is boundless. Your drive can take you anywhere.

Make the focus of your homeschool to raise kids who love to learn.

You’ve Got This!

I want to share a story that illustrates perfectly why you should remind yourself everyday that you can do this.

With these hot summer days, our two year old daughter loves getting in the pool. She has an appropriate fear of the water, but yet is gaining courage to get in deeper to try swimming with her puddle jumper. Once she can do this, she will have the freedom to follow the rest of us around the pool rather than staying on the steps. Sometimes I help teach her by taking her out with me. When I do this, I tell her, “You’ve got this! It’s ok!”

Other times, I give her freedom to be alone and attempt it by herself. As she slowly descends to the next deeper step, I can overhear her saying to herself under her breath with her two year old lisp, “It’s ok. You got this!” She is giving herself a pep talk! It’s so adorable.

Moms, we need to practice this. Give yourself a pep talk if you need to. Remind yourself, “It’s ok! You’ve got this!” If you know that God has called you to homeschool, remind yourself that with His help, YOU CAN DO THIS!

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Does your homeschool seem…ordinary? No tricks, nothing special, just you and the kids making a little more progress every day. Should you be doing more? Is this simple day-to-day enough? There’s always the dazzle of uncharted horizons… the latest curriculum fad, more field trips, classes your kids would like to take. While there’s no harm in adding a little pizzaz to your days, I would like to encourage you that you can have a simple homeschool and it can be very good. Let me share 5 reasons why your homeschool can be simple.

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What Is a Simple Homeschool?

Because we have a large family with a wide age range (10 kids, ages 18 to 5 months) our homeschool has been very basic from time to time. Meeting the needs of each individual child sometimes means we have to lighten the load on our calendar!

For us, simple homeschooling has looked like this. Staying home more often, being involved in fewer extracurricular activities, doing less in general. Simple homeschool often means saying no to some things so you can say yes to the more important matters. It can mean not being up on the latest trends in curriculum and instead using basic materials like library books, a globe, an abacus, flashcards, counting tiles, common kitchen items, etc.

Simple homeschooling does NOT mean that we aren’t challenging our kids. As homeschool moms, we know when our kids aren’t giving it their best shot and this kind of attitude is not ok! We want them to always try their very best and to see all of life as learning.

Certain seasons or financial circumstances might make it necessary to keep school very minimal. If this is you, don’t compare yourself to what others are doing or doubt your effectiveness as a homeschool mom. I want to encourage you that your homeschool can be quite simple and yet very good.

Disclaimer

Before I tell you all the reasons why your homeschool can be simple, I know some people thrive on creative endeavors and spontaneous excursions. Staying busy and trying new things keeps some people going! I am not trying to discourage that kind of inspiration. In fact, because I am not generally creative by nature, I surround myself with friends who inspire me with their creative juices so that I can glean from them what ideas might work for us. I like to add zing from time to time. Variety is the spice of life!

Sometimes, however, we can have so much on our plate that a simple homeschool is just the ticket to a peaceful home. If you have a new baby or have recently moved, these might be reasons you long for a simple homeschool. If like us, you have a large family, you may need to keep your homeschool simple in certain times of life to be able to function.

#1 Advantage of Simple Curriculum

I know all that new curriculum you saw the the recent convention looks sooo tempting, but you don’t have to have the best curriculum for your child to succeed! In fact, you can stick with the same curriculum all the way through if you want, no matter how many latest models you see along the way.

We have done this (for the most part) in our homeschool and it has resulted in what I call the “trickle down” effect. I have seen how much the younger children pick up from watching their older siblings do school work. When they are finally old enough to start, they are familiar with the layout and the content, expectations, and teaching style. SO MANY times I have started to teach my budding school age child a new concept only to see that they already know it. They have heard all the history songs from 5 different time periods because they have been sitting beside an older sibling listening to them for several years before starting school themselves.

Additionally, after I teach the curriculum to the oldest child, I get better and better with the next child. Every time a mom switches curriculum, it takes a period of time to learn the new layout. Admittedly, from time to time, I have been tempted to try the newest fads, but as you can see, staying with the same curriculum, though it may seem ordinary, has its advantages as well.

#2 Free Time Breeds Curiosity

Nothing will stifle a child’s imagination more than running around from activity to activity. Kids need free time. Time to be bored. When children have space in their day, they begin to wonder and ask questions. With free time, kids can pursue their interests and hone their skills. This is when some of the best learning happens! If your kids raise kids who love to learn, you have equipped them in the best way possible.

Think about it. What kinds of things do you remember most? You remember the things you were interested in and took time to search and learn on your own. So it’s ok if your homeschool is simple. All that free time is serving you well.

Examples

Here are two examples of people with very primitive learning environments who taught themselves and grew up to make important contributions to the people of their time period.

Laura Ingalls Wilder grew up in wilderness areas, living sometimes on the prairie or in a dugout. Consequently, she lived each day working without modern tools, churning butter, hand-washing clothes, making her own candles. She had access to few books, yet she grew to be an excellent writer. Laura has a way of expressing thoughts and processes in a way that is easy to understand.

Frederick Douglas, who was born in slavery, grew up in a supremely dismal literate environment, yet when he escaped slavery as a free man, he became one of the greatest orators our country has ever known. Where did he get this training in public speaking? As a young slave, he taught himself over the years how to read. When he gained his freedom, one of the first books he ever owned was a book of famous speeches. He memorized them.

So you see, it doesn’t take the best tools or plans to help kids learn, it takes desire. Thankfully, this curious nature is innate in all children!

“The children are hungry! They have an appetite for knowing and experiencing.
It is the strong, real world that interests them so much, where the unexpected can happen and there is wonderful mystery.”

-Susan Schaeffer Macaulay For The Children’s Sake

#3 YouTube and the Magical Library Card

The beauty of the information age is that we have access to infinite amounts of information just at our fingertips. While it may be fun to sign up for various classes, it’s not necessary when you can learn how to do anything on YouTube. If your kids want to build a treehouse, YouTube it! If kids want ideas for how to start their own business, they can learn the skills needed from watching videos of others working a trade. When an appliance breaks in your home, you no longer have to call the repairman, turn it into a physics and machinery lesson!

With your library card, you can read just about any book… for free! You don’t need to fill your time with unnecessary plans when you can learn the same thing in the comfort of your home.

#4 A Peaceful Mom

No matter how many fun activities and learning experiences you have planned for your kids, if you as a mom are frazzled and overwhelmed, these exciting plans may have the opposite outcome. Kids learn best when they live in a secure, loving environment with parents who are fully engaged.

Think about the atmospheres that prevent kids from learning well:

  • Broken relationships/fighting
  • Not feeling secure at home
  • Basic needs not met: food, shelter, rest, clothing
  • No order or structure to family life

When you think about the atmospheres that inhibit learning, I hope you can see how a peaceful mom is a very important ingredient for a healthy homeschool. Think about how the basic act of staying home often with regular routines and loving parents who provide plenty of free time for play and work can equip your child with the best environment to grow and thrive.

#5 There’s No Place Like Home

While it may seem at times that everything exciting is “out there”, think of all the opportunities available to you in your home. Home is the place where you can be the most creative. A home is filled with raw materials: wood, fabric, water, stone, metals, ceramic, modeling dough or clay, simple machines. Your whole kitchen can become a chemistry lab as you experiment with actions and reactions. A walk outside opens up a world of living plants, animals, birds, and insects. A flower, herb, or vegetable garden will bring even more variety to your home for your children to discover. Consider the difference between the accoutrements in a brick and mortar school building and the exhaustive resources available in the comfort of your own home. There’s no comparison! Humble though it may be, truly, there is no place like home!

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Homeschool Mom, you are not alone! Deep in your heart you know that when you decided to homeschool, you made a decision that is good for your kids as well as the whole family, but it’s not easy taking the road less traveled. Do you feel alone in homeschooling? Here’s why you should take heart!

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Have you felt alone in homeschooling from time to time? The very nature of the job means we moms are home alone with young children day after day. This is a wonderful blessing, but it can also feel isolating.

You may be the only person in your family who is homeschooling. Because of this, your parents and in laws may question or criticize your choices. If you have nieces or nephews who are in school, the work your kids are doing might be compared to them.

You may be alone in your neighborhood. When you see the school bus go through and all the children going off for the day, do you feel left behind? Sometimes I go on walks during the day with our kids through the neighborhood and it looks like a ghost town. All the kids are in school and all the parents are at work. Sometimes I imagine what how wonderful it would be if more kids were home more often. It would be so wonderful to hear children’s voices throughout the day.

Are you alone in your church? Maybe you are the only homeschooling family or maybe all the children’s programs operate from from the perspective of the public school calendar and way of doing things. You may feel unseen.

Some moms can struggle with isolation even among other homeschoolers. If you have a parenting philosophy that is different or are using a curriculum that is not what others are using or you have a child who has learning difficulties, you may struggle to relate to other moms in your circle of friends.

Maybe you miss the respect you had when you worked in the corporate world where your job held a title. Let’s be honest, our culture doesn’t value the work a mother does in the home.

These are all things that could lead to feelings of isolation. Here are some tips that have helped me along the way.

#1 Don’t Wait For Others To Find You

Take the initiative to reach out and find a community. Don’t wait for people to find you. As a homeschooler you will have to forge your own path in many ways, but the extra work is worth it! Reach out to friends to plan some play dates. Connect with other homeschool moms by going out for coffee to talk. Organize field trips with other homeschoolers.

Look around for co-ops or start a co-op yourself! Attending a co-op is a wonderful source of regular encouragement and support. Our co-op, which is now established and running itself, was started several years ago by five moms. We met together in each other’s homes weekly. Our co-op has since grown exponentially, but at the time, it was the perfect support for us.

Having Trouble Finding a Homeschool Community That Fits? Consider This!

#2 Consume Homeschool Related Content

Read books, listen to podcasts, and follow blogs that relate to homeschooling. This will help you in several ways. It will open your eyes to the larger community of other homeschool parents. Also, it will encourage you to keep going in the day-to-day work with your kids. It may give you ideas or support to help problem solve when you have struggles.

Here are some of my favorite homeschool blogs to follow.

Read Aloud Revival

Simply Charlotte Mason

Generation Cedar

Ambleside Online

Also, here is a post with my favorite homeschool podcasts.

Five Homeschool Podcasts You Need to Download

Other homeschool bloggers you might enjoy.

Silo and Sage

Kindling Wild

Akin For The Simple Life

Connecting With Littles

East Pine Home

Joanna Overly

#3 Find a Hobby

One of the mistakes I made as a new homeschool mom was that I didn’t take enough time away from the kids and homeschooling to do hobbies that I enjoy. Homeschooling can be all-consuming. Being with children all day every day is exhausting. Getting away, even for a short period of time, can be just the thing to refresh your spirit. Spending time learning a new skill or investing in a new venture can be invigorating. When you come back to your kids, you will feel refreshed.

Encouragement: You Are Not Alone

You are not alone because the number of homeschoolers is rapidly increasing. As a homeschooler, you are part of a growing number of parents who are deciding to take their children’s education back into their own hands. Even after the spike during COVID, the number of homeschoolers continues to climb. Many parents are concerned about the safety in school environments and the aggressive liberal agenda of public schools. Others simply want more time with their kids. The tide is changing as word is getting out about the positive effects homeschooling has on kids.

You are also not alone because the LORD has promised to be with you. Jesus said, “I will never leave you. I will never forsake you.” If you are doing something that you know God has called you to do, then He will walk with you through it. The words “with you” should sustain you through any struggles you have in doing the Lord’s work.

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Christian parents, now is the time to consider homeschooling! More than ever before, we must equip our children for a world that is increasingly hostile to Christians. Thankfully, there has never been a time in history when it has been easier to homeschool than today. Don’t waver any longer. Give your kids a Christian education that aligns with your family values and your faith!

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#1 The public system is intentionally and aggressively indoctrinating our kids.

For many years it has been subtle, but government education is no longer hiding their agenda. Conform, or face the consequences. We are finally seeing the fruit of what many homeschool advocates have been proposing for years which is this.

Education is not neutral.

The public sector is claiming our kids in droves because our children have been groomed to trust and believe the agenda that has been taught to them from childhood through culture and education.

“Give me four years to teach the children and the seed I have sown will never be uprooted.”

Vladimir Lenin

God has assigned parents the responsibility of discipling our children. Are we really so naive as to believe that a 30 minute lesson every Sunday morning is enough to prepare our kids for a world that is openly antagonistic to our Christian faith?

When our children are asked the hard life questions that will come up in adolescence, do they have answers? When they become adults and are faced in the workplace with conforming or losing a job, have we prepared them for this?

If you have been homeschooling a while, you often hear parents say things like, “but my child’s school isn’t like that.” Many parents cling to the hope that Christians can influence the community by being present in public schools. I suggest that the opposite is true.

If Christian parents have been proactively involved in public education for decades, why haven’t we seen a noticeable difference? The moral atmosphere in government schools has continued in a sharp downward spiral.

How much longer are we going to continue with this failing approach? What line are we waiting for them to cross for us to finally say enough is enough? Why keep hanging to the threadbare remnants of the public system?

For more on this, read Nicki Truesdell’s The False Security of “The Good School”.

On the contrary, it is those who have stepped out of the system who can be free thinkers who influence culture. They can move forward to learn and reflect the true, the good, and the beautiful without limits. As a group, homeschoolers, because they have left the system, pose a threat to public education because what they are doing is effectively changing society.

Try An Alternative

Consider this alternative. Leave government education. Weaken the system. Strengthen the family.

Abandon the long-held false assumption that Math, Science, English, etc. (“school”) is a domain of the state, separate from faith. All that can be learned or understood comes from God.

When kids are taught from a Biblical worldview, they see that all learning is His idea, His creation, His design.

Think about what our children may be missing without a definitively Christian education.

  • Do they know where Biblical history fits in with world history?
  • Do they have an understanding of God’s beautiful design for marriage and sexuality?
  • Have they been taught science, history, civics, etc. from many perspectives or just the modern “acceptable” narrative?
  • Have they read through the Bible? Has someone read it to them?
  • Do they know any history of the Christian church? How did the church respond to false teachings or deconstruction in other time periods?
  • What defense can they give of their Christian faith?
  • Who are our kids’ heroes? When we think about who our culture is pressing them to admire, ask this question. Do our kids have Christian heroes? Present and past?
  • Do our children see the patterns of history repeating itself? Do they grasp the cycle of affluence, moral decline, and collapse of civilizations?

For more reading on this topic, see 5 Opportunities Unique to a Christian Education.

#2 There has never been an easier time to homeschool than right now.

As more and more people are choosing to homeschool, it has paved the way for others to do it more easily. We have easy access to a plethora of resources through the Internet, homeschool co-ops, HSLDA and other similar organizations, and other homeschool parents.

In the age of the Internet, homeschooling is so much easier than it used to be. Parents no longer need to teach everything themselves. If we want to, we can outsource subjects. There are endless options for online live or self-paced classes from a Biblical worldview.

Here are a few (of many) ways homeschoolers are outsourcing their children’s education.

History: Veritas Press Self-Paced History Classes

English/Literature/History/ Theology Wilson Hill Academy

Math: Teaching Textbooks

With the rise in the numbers of homeschoolers, co-ops are popping up everywhere. Co-ops are just as important for moms as they are for the kids because moms need encouragement to continue on the “road less traveled.” At co-op, moms can talk to others and share resources or help find solutions for struggles in homeschooling.

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Homeschooling is not as hard as you think.

“I could never homeschool my kids. If I had to be with them all day, I’d go crazy!”

If I have heard this once, I have heard it a bazillion times.

But these are our children! We only have one chance at giving them a solid foundation before they grow up and become adults.

The thing is…when you are with your kids all day for an extended time, you figure it out. You learn to give yourself space and alone time. Likewise, the kids learn what is acceptable and what’s not going to fly with mom around.

Homeschooling takes much less time than traditional school so parents and kids usually have for other pursuits after they finish the academic part of the day.

The Sacrifice of a Christian Education is Worth It

Homeschooling (or the financial cost of a private Christian school) is costly. I get it.

Years ago, when I quit working full time to stay home with our kids, our income was cut in half. Yes, half! Things were tight. When I think of my parents and my husband’s parents who made the sacrifice to put us in Christian school over 20 years ago, they felt the cost as well.

Perhaps even more costly, for me personally, was losing the respect that comes from a career with a title. Many homeschool moms feel this sacrifice very deeply.

While some homeschoolers find alternate ways to work from home or work part-time (homeschooling takes much less time than traditional school), it still comes with a price tag. Being with your kids all day is both wonderful and exhausting.

Furthermore, sometimes homeschoolers have to answer questions from critical family members and friends about their decision to homeschool. It’s not easy to go against the flow.

All these costs aside, giving your kids a Christian education is worth it. We homeschoolers are equipping future generations. Let these verses from Psalm 78 be our banner as we continue to move forward for the sake of our posterity.

”O my people, listen to my instructions.
    Open your ears to what I am saying. I will teach you hidden lessons from our past…stories we have heard and known, stories our ancestors handed down to us. We will not hide these truths from our children; we will tell the next generation about the glorious deeds of the Lord, about his power and his mighty wonders….He commanded our ancestors to teach them to their children, so the next generation might know them— even the children not yet born— and they in turn will teach their own children. So each generation should set its hope anew on God.”

Psalm 78

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